Do not continue to ponder things that you have no control over. This can only cause frustration, disappointment and fault-finding. Determine to release these situations into the hand of God. Trust in Him. God’s grace is sufficient, even in the most difficult situations.
Numbers 23:11 — But the Lord said to Moses, “Do you think I’m weak? Is the hand of the Lord too short? Now you will see if I can do what I say [if the words I spoke to you come true or not].
2 Corinthians 12:9 — But God said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”